29 Year Old Reverend Khrystus V. K. Wallace, Founder and President of Dare 2 Be Different International - www.daretobedifferetnskn.com since 1st June, 2008 and KVK ENTERPRISES - www.kvklives.com since July, 2003 |
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge
True love is more than having GREAT SEX everyday!
From the very onset of this global literary piece, I want to make something clear. HAVING SEX IS NOT A SIN! Sex was ordained by God to be enjoyed by males and females. One of the reasons God's leaders throughout the Bible instituted "sexual control" laws, was to avoid the abuse of this enjoyable act.
Sexual abuse against women. Sexual abuse against men. Sexual abuse against children. That is why even from Old Testament days, CHASTITY, MARRIAGE and NO ADULTERY were promoted by the Godly leaders of the day. Oh how things have changed. Many global leaders of today seem to not even have anything close to MORALS now-a-days. If we would all heed God's word, especially with regards to chastity, marriage (man to woman) and no adultery, oh what a better place this world would be.
I try not to promote myself as "Mr. Perfect" or a "SAINT." God is still doing a lot, a lot of work on me. I've made my mistakes too. May I remind you. Please do not idolize me ever, Follow GOD! Follow GOD! Follow GOD! I am a mere man with many gifts that God has lent to me to serve OTHERS. TO SERVE YOU. FOLLOW GOD - not me!!!
With that said, there are many boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives roaming planet earth daily and living unhappy, hellish lives as they feel ABUSED and USED. They smile and joke with you as a facade, but they are not really and truly HAPPY.
This is the cause simply because one party seems to only USE the other party's BODY and MONEY and the "USED PARTY" is too afraid, ashamed or psychologically disadvantaged to stand up, say something and maybe even move on. This could be for more than one reason to be discussed in another paper.
True love is more than having great sex everyday!
What about going for a drive together regularly? What about doing simple and silly things like going window shopping or running up and down on a pasture like little children?
When last have you held hands publicly? Is someone else in the picture why you're afraid to hold hands publicly? What about a kiss on the cheek when you're parting, or better yet on the lips, PUBLICLY?
When last have you ate out at a luxurious restaurant or sat together on the beach and watched the sunset?
Are you always selfishly consumed with work and only make time FOR SEX?
What about spending a night or a weekend at a hotel away from the children?
What about still opening the door for your honey even though you've been together for five or fifteen or twenty five years?
What about showing up with a home cooked meal for your girl friend's lunch at her job?
Girl friends and wives, why not stop bashing your boyfriends or husbands when ever they try to go out of the way to do something different or unique for you? When you bash us and don't appreciate us, we start doing things for others who APPRECIATE US. That's not UNGODLY! That's HUMAN AND REALISTIC! I've done that and moved on previously!
What about planning a vacation together?
What about buying him something that you know he likes? I spend much more on a woman who doesn't selfishly care about herself alone, but cares about me, buys me a shirt at times, or cooks me dinner, or dresses me for an event, or comes by me and forces me to stop working and relax with her. MEN need LOVE, CARE and ATTENTION TOO.
Men, women appreciate a lot of LOVE, CARE and ATTENTION also. Flowers on the job can do. Or, better yet, POP THE BIG QUESTION - STOP FOOLING AROUND - GET MARRIED! That's all women's BIG DREAM.
Note well, since you're not talking marriage to her, some other guy on her email, whatsapp, facebook or on the job is IMPRESSING HER MUCH MORE than you and you can't blame her for moving on because you're too shy and can't make up your mind about what and who you want in your future. Can I be real with you?
True LOVE is more that having GREAT SEX everyday!
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge
Brother Khrystus V. K. Wallace
Dare 2 Be Different International - www.daretobedifferentskn.com
President & Founder - Since June 2008
Email: drkhrystus@kvklives.com
Whatsapp: 1-869-661-0118
Other Tel: 1-869-765-7270
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